Speaking when facing difficulties without being ashamed or afraid is to come out of isolation. Humility, confession frees from shame and guilt and therefore from suffering.
Walk in the light, stop hiding. Admit your weaknesses and faults. CONFESSION.
HUMILITY! It frees from shame and guilt which are a deadly weight that pushes to lies, vice and to live hidden in the dark.
To confess is to assume. To assume is to be in self-esteem.
To be in the right self-esteem is Humility: we are neither more nor less than another, we deny neither our weaknesses nor our qualities.
In this humility we are whole and therefore autonomous. We do not fall into the compulsion to please. We only seek to please God, or to be the best of ourselves. Because good self-esteem necessarily leads to self-love and therefore to Excellence.
So don’t ask yourself what you want but what God wants! And what does a good father want for his creature? That he be the most handsome, the strongest, happiest, good, intelligent, … in short, that he be the best, excellent. This is necessarily good for the collective, the universe and will therefore radiate and naturally flow into others. So be a good father to yourself, behave like a good patriarch with in self-control and follow the tablets of the law with excellence.
Rejection is therefore a gift not to be underestimated and not to be afraid of. When you shine, you attract men of good will and you offend those who are in darkness and vice: the jealous, mediocre, complexed who are ashamed because the ego prevents them from confessing their weakness, lazy, … Their rejection is a gift because their presence is a poison.
Trust the invisible. Appearances are deceptive. The one who rejects you, it is for a good reason that is sometimes beyond you. He does not belong to your path, do not hold on. And when you feel rejection, do not feel guilty. It is the law of attraction that plays. Do not go against the law.
Wanting to please everyone is against the law and wanting to please at all is vanity. It is vain, useless.
We judge a tree by its fruits. Produce your fruits and let those who are nourished by them, feed on them and those who are repelled, go their way.
Attention must be paid to the production of fruits, the joy of their beauty, usefulness, quality. And not on the gaze of others, their reactions. Produce your fruits with enthusiasm, that is to say in God: En Theos.
Walking in the light is to radiate and expose one’s qualities and defects. To be vulnerable. To be in the truth. Whole. The fragmentation and suffering of vice then no longer have a hold. There is no more grip on you for manipulation.
The way is clear to become greater than one’s problems and thus solve bigger and bigger ones for the good of all!